All the time apart the Military throws at you is HARD on the home front. You can only fake it until you make it for so long. It’s easy to miscommunicate and for your service member to seem out of touch. Soon, you feel hopeless. It’s not that there is a lack of love, but a lack of connection. BUT IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE THAT WAY! There are SIMPLE things you can be empowered and keep a thriving relationship no matter the distance!
This isn’t your typical “deployment briefing” information, old pamphlets from the 90s, or has hard as trying to get your service member to go to therapy. This is customizable, ACTIONABLE, and loaded with ideas made specifically for YOU to give you confidence to rekindle the spark!
Each lesson is divided into principles, making it easy to digest and apply. These lessons will take out the guess work on what your military relationship needs and will empower you through each step.
Whether you are going through the workbook with your spouse or alone, these questions will help you map out an intentional way to help your specific and unique relationship stay connected.
If you have the tendency to think you are the only one or get stuck seeing how principles match up with your life, this is for you. The personal examples of how I have failed or conquered each principles pulls back the curtain and will help connect all the dots for you .
You will not be felt clueless or having to figure it out alone. The workbook have extra credible resources to help you deep dive any of the principles. You will also have access to an exclusive Facebook group only for workbook owners.
The military takes control of so many aspects of your life. But you are in control of how it will effect your relationship!
You are told to put on a brave face for your family, and before you know it you feel like you have no where to turn. NO MORE. You are not alone and there are solutions.
Every marriage has struggles, but military marriages have unique ones. That doesn’t mean the success rate is left to chance! Learn about tried and true principles and have a thriving military marriage!
While everyone is different, the principles and patterns for staying connected during military separations are always the same. This workbook shows you the principles and then gives questions so you can figure out how to make it work best for you.
This workbook can absolutely still help you and your marriage! You can never control your spouse, so don’t try to force them into anything. Better yourself and your relationship skills.
Yes! A healthy marriage is not a one and done accomplishment. Life will continuously throw challenges at you, and this book helps you stick to tried and true principles that will keep your marriage healthy and strong.
If buying the ebook version, no. You will be sent a downloadable version of the book which you can share with your service member. Once physical copies are available, you may want a physical copy for each person so you will need to purchase two.
If you have a month or more left I would absolutely still get and go through the workbook. There is plenty of time to strengthen, or mend your connection. If you are within a month of your homecoming date, I would get the Bulletproof Your Reintegration Course instead. Get the workbook the next time you have a military separation coming up. Or, like I always say, Education is the best prevention. You know you’ll have another separation. It is the military after all! 🙂
Austin and I have been through a dozen separations and we still refer to these principles and patterns! Every military separation is different, and you both are different, so this workbook will help you work through all the hurdles again.
 Army wife of 11+ years, mom for 4 girls and a boy in heaven, and hardcore believer that it’s possible to have a thriving marriage, family, and military life.
